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Dating in the winter

Hey Cats,

As the colder nights draw in we want to spend more time indoors or at home. That can have an impact on our dating because going out to the clubs when there’s rain and snow out just doesn’t appeal. There are still lots of treat things you can do indoors for dating and finding love.

Try online

Why not try browsing online dating sites and chatting with new people from the comfort of your sofa in your pjs. What can sound more appealing that being toasty and warm sipping on hot coco late while still being able to chat with new people. There are some great online sites like Surrey dating site , or dating sites in Surrey and Senior dating sites . There are also lots of great apps you can try there really is something for everyone to try.


Online dating is low pressure as you can chat and get to know someone and see if you click. I do advise you meet as soon as possible so you can see if you click in real life too but you can chat on the phone or even over FaceTime first so that you don’t feel like you’re meeting up with a complete stranger.

Go Shopping

So another task that needs doing in the winter is shopping. So many birthday and not to mention Christmas to pay for and with the rise of inside shopping centres right here in the UK you can stay dry and warm while shopping till you drop. Lots of people come out shopping in the winter and you may find yourself making small talk in a que with a hottie. If you do you could even rock up on your first date right there as most of these places also have cinemas and lots of fun places to go out and eat.

Hanging out with friends in fun places like this even just getting out for food once a week will open up your circle to more people. Who knows if that barman at that trendy wine bar is single or if a great band are playing in a local venue.

Say Yes To Local Events

This time of year is also buzzing with lots of local events from parades to Christmas fares and it is a time people come out with their family. Often people who may usually spend a lot of time at work or even just at home will venture out and about and even if you don’t meet a new love you may see lots of old friends or even make new ones.

Just think of Bridget Jones when she bumped into her love for the first time in a hideous Christmas jumper at a family party. So just say yes to those invites and get yourself out more and just have fun. It will be in the least expected places that you can meet new people or maybe even see that old flame that you lost touch with.

How do you find dates this winter?



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Explore and find love this autumn

Hey Cats,

The season is upon us when we celebrate with family and loved ones and this time of year can already be awesome but when you find someone to share with it just takes it to the next level. If you're at the point in your life where you feel ready to share then exploring online dating could be for you explore great sites like Jersey dating site, dating sites in jersey or if you're a little older then you can find a site like senior dating really useful.

Although it is really important to have your own independence and be able to appreciate alone time some things are best enjoyed shared with others. I am going to share a few of my own favourite shared intimate moments that can be enjoyed with new or established love.

Exploring

There is nothing like discovering new places with someone from Vegas to Blackpool little trips near and far always create memories and fun times. I have had some fantastic times exploring new places alone but always feel I enjoy it so much more when with someone else because you push each other to explore different things , try new foods and even if the place you found was a complete dive having someone to laugh that off with. Often those are the best memories when your bed broke or camping was a flop. You really don't have to travel far to explore maybe you have always wondered where a certain trail goes or what the new Italian restaurant in town is like.



Meals

Dining out new places for me is a dream I am such a foodie and so any date night for me revolves around some kind of food. I am a sharer and think its a great bond when you can share food and really enjoy different dishes together. When you have got bored of eating out and that bond is there then why not take it into your own kitchen and cook together. Creating dishes you love together can help a relationship blossom and make an evening fun. Put on some music, make your own recipes and get adventurous in the kitchen.

Movie nights

The best bit about new love is sharing all your favourite things from that band you love to your all time best films and in the process finding some together. Laughing at bad films and crying at sad films together any chance to snuggle up and break out the popcorn. Netflix and chill didn't get it's name straight from the gutter there are so many series you can enjoy watching together hold onto those guilty pleasures until you know each other a little more that secret crush on Gordon Ramsey can wait until your comfortable laughing at each other.



Walks

Money should never be an issue when it comes to dating from city to countryside there is always a walk you can take together. Get your scarf out take a walk in the crisp autumn air through the golden leaves and get those hearts pumping in more ways than one. The joy of holding hands and exploring nature together is beautiful.

What do you love to do?

Bringing A Room Together With Feature Walls

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When it comes to decorating a house the easiest way to make a room is to have a Feature wall. It can really make rooms look a lot bigger then they are are most people do the other three walls light and neutral and then have one main feature wall that draws the eyes in. I still think this is a classic and quick way to get the best from a room. It can do wonders for small rooms keeping them cosy but really creating the illusion of larger spaces.

The classic way to have a feature wall is to have a bright colour on one or even just to wallpaper one with a fun print. I miss my old bedroom which had a lovely loud leopard print wall but had the leopard been on all the walls not only would you have a weird psychedelic headache but the room would just close in around you and become very claustrophobic. Limiting loud prints means they have more of an impact and you really get the detailing of a stunning wall paper when it is matched with a neutral wall. You can then liven the room up with lots of cute accessories any excuse to get lots of lovely candles or prints to make a room more you.



Another great way to bring a feature wall into your home is by exposing some brick work. It is best to get a professional to help with this as they can make sure the room still stays well insulated and that the brick work has been protected. Sometimes it is better to use a professional who is able to create a stylish piece for you which looks like exposed brick but has actually been created which also then gives you more freedom to choose the kind of look you want do you want a traditional red brick look or a sandy stone? 



These can be created with brick slips which is a kind of tile that you can use on your wall to create the illusion of brick. They still look and feel like brick work and will give that rustic feel you want for a fraction of the price of unearthing your real brickwork, You can order samples and play around before committing and getting an idea of what you want. They are also a lot slimmer than real bricks so won't bulk up the room anymore than normal. If you have a log burner they are also heat resistant and just think of that stunning finish you will have right in your home bringing the fire and brick together has that real rustic edge.

The great thing about brick slips is that they can be used outside too if you want to have a brick finish outside. If you get the right kind then they are weather protected as they are made from coloured concrete.

Have you heard of brick slips before? What kind of brick look would you bring into your home?




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Updating Your Skirting Boards

Hey Cats,

Often when we think about home improvement we think of all beautiful colours we want to paint the walls or all the new furniture we need. The last thing we think of is the little things that make a huge difference in the home like our skirting boards and door frames. You probably think I am crazy talking about this but you can have a lovely house but if you don't look after the basics then it can literally fall apart or just look really unfinished.



Take a good look at your skirting boards, doors and door frames and check if they are in good standing. Have they become warped, chipped or damaged in any other way? Paying attention to your doors and skirting can tell you about problems you may be having with your home. If they seem to have ballooned out or become warped then there could be a problem with damp in your home. Get this checked out and make sure you keep your home well ventilated and a great airflow going around especially in stuffy rooms that you may not use much. Any problems like this may mean you need to replace them.

Keeping your skirting well maintained is easy and important. Remember to work cleaning skirting boards and door frames into your cleaning routine. Just give them a quick hoover when you're doing a room and a wipe down with your favourite cleaning products to keep the room fresh. It is also advised to give them a fresh paint every now and again to keep them looking clean and giving your room that extra finish. I prefer to keep my skirting white but you can work them into your colour scheme if you prefer. Just remember whichever colour you choose to go more neutral and use a paint that is friendly with cleaning that you can wipe down easily. This is important for when you want to clean them and help keep them in good condition between painting.



The same goes for door frames and picking the right doors for your home. Getting the correct measurements is important as doors come in a variety of sizing. In the same way make sure you work them into your cleaning routine too. Invest in an extendable duster that you can reach high spaces easily with. Choose a nice natural wooden finish for a more rustic feel and less upkeep just ensure to seal so they are easy to keep clean.

When you do invest in new Skirting and doors it is important that not only do you know what sizing and style you want but also which materials. I suggest you go for water resistant products which are an upgrade on old ones in most homes which have possibly been there since they were first built. Investing in new skirting can usually come with a long guarantee and you won't have to do often if you choose wisely and get them fitted professionally.

Have you updated your skirting or doors recently?





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Fun With Children In The Garden

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After living in a flat for years I now feel spoiled having a huge beautiful garden. Gardens are such an important playground for children You can use your garden as both a fun and educational place for your children. Alice Garden have some fantastic additions to any garden and today we are going to explore how to make your garden fun for children but still your zen paradise.

A shed can be your best friend for keeping your garden clutter free all those bikes and little toys not being played with. It can be cute too you don't have to settle for boring brown get some paint out and make it pretty and vibrant. You can all sit down together in the garden and draw some ideas of what the best shed can look like and try and bring those ideas together in a fun way that makes your garden a colourful and fun place to be in. If you really want to add a person touch you can even get the children to help you paint some but if you want a more polished finish maybe best to set them their own painting task in painting their favourite things about the garden.



If a shed is not your jam and you already have somewhere to store those toys then a great educational vice for children can be a greenhouse. Potting plants and learning about the growth of nature or fruits and vegetables is not only a great way to learn about nature but also to encourage healthy eating. I remember growing potato, peas and carrots with my Nana when I was little and being so excited to try them at dinner time knowing that we had grown them ourselves. You can then bring the garden into the kitchen by creating fun friendly recipes you can make together. Try out different seasonal flowers and vegetables and explore which ones they prefer. This can be a great way to keep the garden looking pretty ad colourful while having fun with learning. 

A garden tool that is often overlooked is a great table and chairs set not only is this great for you to kick back with a glass of wine on a sunny day but a place for all the family. You can dine outside a picnic without having to leave home or set outside fun activities with the children. A great activity you can do this autumn is collecting your favourite leaf and doing a crayon rubbing of them or drawing some great pictures. Bug hunts have always been popular in our household and adding a bug house and a bird feeder have helped encourage nature in the garden. We love monitoring the different insects and animals we see in the garden. So far we have been graced with cats, squirrels, foxes, birds and lots of interesting bugs. Spending time in the garden actually helped my step son get over a fear of bees as the more he learnt about them the more he understood they weren't out to hurt him. 

What do you have in your garden?



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Where do I find Paid blog posts?

Hey Cats,

The biggest question I get asked is how to make money from your blog! You are already writing great posts so why not make some money from them right? First thing first you need to really have your own domain before you start searching for paid work. Your domain authority helps build the rank of your blog and the higher you can get this the wider your audience and paid work offers will span. Make sure you have a clear contact form on your blog where people can reach you if they want to work with you. Now you have that sussed people know how to reach you but you have to go out and find some work too! Let me tell you some great places to get started.



Get blogged

Get blogged have great blogger outreach services with a really easy to use website where you can find great blog opportunities for any DA as little as 5! Their blogger outreach strategy  is really inclusive and even gives you points for every post you do and every person or brand you refer to them. The work is getting more varied the more they grow and they are really easy to work with and pay super quick straight into your Paypal. You can write about anything from dating to blogging and join a fun community.



Facebook Groups

There are lots of dedicated blogger related Facebook groups that you can join which can share tips and advice with you and also point you in the direction of some paid or gifted work. There are some dedicated just to sharing opportunities needed. There is a great group you can join called Bloggers on thin ice or UK bloggers if you're a plus blogger then you can join mine too over at Plus size blogger babes . You can find paid work in these groups as well as lots of tips on where to find more work or ways to adapt your blog to make it more marketable.


Twitter

Twitter is another great place to find shout outs for blog collaborations. You can follow hashtags like #bloggersrequired or #bloggerswanted and lots will pop up asking for your links. Also just by being active and sharing your blog posts regularly you will get approached.  Remember you can share old posts too if they are relevant the best way to do this is to use a scheduling app and just load up some posts through the week to shout out at different times to reach a wider audience. Make sure that your feed is more than just blog posts though or your followers may get a little bored and could consider it to be a bit spammy.

Pr 

When you're contacted by a PR representative make sure you keep that relationship going. I always save my contacts to recontact later in the year to see if they have any other great collaborations to work on again. Building relationships is very important make sure you deliver and are always polite and approachable. I have made some great relationships with some love PR reps who have come back to me to work together numerous times and I hope to keep those relationships going. Make sure not to spam them monthly only request new work a few times a year as different PR agents work in different ways.

Where do you find your blog posts?



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Tips for Staying Safe at Concerts and Other Live Music Events

Hey Cats,

There’s nothing quite like the atmosphere at a live music concert. They can be an awesome
experience. Being able to listen to a band or performer raw and in the flesh is amazing. It can be a
very moving experience. However, such public events do mean you need to take extra precautions.
People get hurt all the time, and the more thought you put into your own safety, the more likely
you’ll have a good time. Many things can go wrong at live events, and with attendances, at an
all-time high, you should bear the following tips in mind.
  • Be Aware of the Venue
Before you go to a venue, find out as much as you can about it. Important factors such as knowing
where the bathrooms are located, whether the venue is open air, parking facilities, and how to get
there will be useful things to know before you travel. Finding the best way to get to the venue and
whether you can park close by, will mean you won’t end up missing half of the concert because
you’re late arriving. Sites such as ticketsales.com are a good place to start for the latest deals, and
will be able to provide some information about the event, so check out all you can before you go.  


  • Protect Your Hearing
There’s nothing wrong with being in the front row, after all, that’s where you can get up close and
personal with the performers. However, also be aware that being so close to the speakers can end
up causing damage to your hearing. If you really must stand close to the stage or near the main
speakers, invest in some quality earplugs.
  • Keep Hydrated
People fainting in the audience is a common occurrence. The main reason this happens is not
overexcitement but dehydration. If you don’t drink enough fluids, you’ll end up feeling dizzy and
possibly even ill. You’re not going to be too impressed if you spend a huge amount on the cost of a
ticket, only to spend your time receiving medical attention. Drink plenty of water and have a good
time.

If you want to partake in alcoholic beverages, it’ll be fine if done in moderation. One or two beers
will add to the enjoyment but getting drunk or drinking heavily does not make for a good evening
and can even lead to problems. Being in an environment where you’re surrounded by lots of
strangers means you have to be aware of what you’re doing. Driving home after the concert is not
a good idea either if you’ve had too much to drink.
One last piece of advice is to keep your valuables and cash hidden. You and the majority of the
audience are there to have a good time. However, there may be a few who will be going to take
advantage of the situation and dip their fingers into other people’s pockets.

Follow the tips above, and you’re more likely to have a great time when attending a show while
keeping yourself out of danger.

What are your top gig tips?



Things you need in your dorm room at college / university

Hey Cats

Chances are you are already in your new dorm or at least well on your way for next year. It can be a super exciting time and for most of you will be your first time moving away from home. Half the fun of a first time away from home is to get it cosy so you can relax and focus on your studies. Here are a few treats that will give you that bit of edge.

Coffee Coffee Coffee

So you heard me coffee will quickly become your best friend after nights of partying or studying and sometimes both. A great way to make sure you’re not burning all your student cash on pumpkin spiced lattes from the local coffee shop is to get your own coffee machine like the Anthony espresso. It may be a pricey initial payment but most coffee machines you can find the pods super cheap in lots of places now. Sure you can just get instant too but there is nothing like fresh hot coffee that’s been brewed and made just for you. If your budget can’t stretch to a machine then get a cafetiere they are cheap and easy to use and much better than instant so will keep you awake and studying hard.



Bring some home comforts

You may have got into an amazing school like Ontario conservatory of music but there really is no place like home. If you bring a few little things from home like pictures of your friends and family, your favourite fluffy blanket and even some home cooking. These little slices of home can really make the move a little easier and help you relax into your new surroundings. The secret is everyone is in the same boat. I loved my big fluffy blanket it brightened up the room, kept me warm and just gave my room a more cosy feel.

Smells like home

Creating a lovely smelling environment is another great way to give your room that home away from home feel. You can pick up nice candles or a safer option is to pick up some lavender or essential oils from somewhere like Botanic universe dried herbs for sale. Using a few drops of lavender on your pillow can also help you get to sleep when you’re worrying about your studies or feeling home sick.

Don’t splurge

A great way to get things like a TV or a laptop without an initial splurge is to try a rental first
https://rentalcity.ca/ rent out sofas and electrical so if you do want a bit of furniture like a sofa without the big price tag you could get a rental then no taking it home in the summer. Keep an eye on places like this for sale of items that are now ex rental and you may be able to grab a bargain at a fraction of the price.



Get organised

The bets tip I can give you to help keep your room tidy and tranquil is to have an organised system form the start. Make sure if you don’t have enough storage you create extra areas using the right kind of hangers or under bed storage. Have lots of great stationary you look forward to using and folders you can store your work away in. Keep back ups of your digital on a key to avoid lots of paper mess and type up notes you need so you can throw away the paper version and keep clutter to a minimum. Plus the sooner you type up notes the better the worst thing is coming to study time and realising you have no idea what half of your abbreviations mean or you can’t read your own writing.

What do you have in your room?


3 steps to being a little more ethical

Hey Cats

There are lots of ways you can bring ethical steps into your daily routine. Nobody can be a ethical icon overnight and lets face it sometimes it can be really hard to stick to plan all the time. Sometimes we want to recycle but there is nowhere near to do so or we want to give to charity but simply can't afford it. Lets talk about little ethical steps you can take one at a time when you can with no shade when you simply can't. Remember Halloween is just around the corner and another lovely blogger has been speaking out about how to Have a greener Halloween.

Try Meat Free And Organic

The world is full of so many vegan friendly food choices these days and it is a wonderful thing that we support each other’s dietary and ethical choices. It may seem crazy the idea of giving up meat or the idea of buying organic may make your bank balance moan but even the commitment of reducing your meat just one day a week can help protect your carbon footprint and help you make healthy choices.




Trying great food like freedomjars.ca organic breakfast oats my favourite has to be the 
orchard crumble really hearty and delicious flavours that can be a great kick start to any day.
Introducing dishes like this into your diet can also help you feel fuller for longer. This 
helps by reducing waste and using organic fairtrade fruits supports local communities too. 


Out With The Old

Next tome you consider changing up your home and using furniture stores like
 https://www.sunpan.com/usa/ keep in mind that you Can make use of your old furniture or 
clothes. You can gift these to a charity who will be able to ensure they go to a well needed 
place. Habitat 4 Humanity specialism is in taking furniture for those in need. Even giving an 
old book to a charity helps as that book can be sold to make money for an important cause.
If you can make sure you gift aid those donations so that the government can top up that 
donation by 25%.  




Give Your Time

If you have nothing to give then the most precious thing you can give is your time.
 Globalfaces direct are a great charity who do some amazing work but there are also lots of
 great places right in your community. There are lots of voluntary roles you can take up and 
there is something for everyone from fundraisers to event planners to helpers and leaders. 
Charity thrives on peoples kindness and ensuring we give a little time to pay it forward can 
make the world of difference right here and right now. 

What are your ethical choices?


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Get The Most When Booking A Holiday This Autumn

Hey Cats,

You may think holiday season is over and it is purely time to start panic buying Christmas but you would be wrong. This is a great time of year to check out some new places around the world and flights can be a lot cheaper outside of school holidays. If you have children then this can be tricky when it comes to getting them out of school but for those of you without take advantage of the lower air fares and get planning for that holiday.

1. Look around!

First don't just run and book the first holiday you have seen this may well seem like a steal but there could be something even better yet!  Always use a private browser as some tricky holiday sites use your cookies from your visit and may jack up the price to increase your interest and make you panic buy...this is a sneaky tactic but it is used by hotels, airlines and even travel agents. Research lots of varied travel places sometimes you may be able to just book a flight and book with a local place like Santa Barbara Travel or G adventures Costa Rica Travel. You can plan lots of fun activities though places like this but make sure you check reviews from previous customers it is a great way to see if it is a great deal.



2. Travel light

The less you need to take with you the less you will have to pay as most airlines now you can get a great deal with just hand luggage. You may think that is impossible but if you leave bulky items like towels behind you can really get more into your hand luggage. You can always pop out somewhere local to buy them most often at a cheaper price or order them online to come to your hotel or villa (click here) or just use them from your hotel. Most hotels and villas are pretty well stocked and accommodating and more often have most things that you need. In this day and age it is so easy to buy while you're there and especially if you are heading somewhere like the states things are super cheap people who plan to immigrate often just leave things behind and buy there rather than here.



3. Be open minded

If you are not stuck on a place to go then more and more opportunities open up. You may find a great deal for somewhere you have never heard of but it could become your favourite location yet. I am not saying run to the airport like in the Simpsons and wait for cheap flights that need filling (although if you're spontaneous it is an option) but there are so many great places to get last minute deals now. You can click to choose if you want a sun or city break and pop in a rough budget and boom you could be jetting off anywhere from Italy to Japan. I think this is a really exciting way to travel as it opens up places you may never heard of and pushes you to explore more.

4. Try a group

Another great way to explore is to try a group travel company. You can go with a friend or alone but you go on an adventure with a small group. These are catered a lot for adventure holidays like treking or skiing but they are also available for seeing sites and relaxing too if your adventurer is more of a look at the local gift shop kind of person. We all have different limits and maybe your partner hates skiing then you can still enjoy the things you love. Lots of places do day trips too whenever I go on holiday I try and go on a few guided tours where you can get a chance to see places you may not have found on your own.


What are your tips for getting more from a holiday?




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A 30 somethings ideal wedding

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So they say that girls have weddings planned out from a super young age but if you asked 5 year old me boys were gross I was going to be Jem and never get married. Fast forward thirty years and here I am engaged and thinking about where I would like to get married. I think when I was a teenager I wanted a wedding with like a million people and lots of free booze and man that would be cool but as you get older friends dwindle off and free booze is far from a cheap game plan. I want to explore with you how my ideal wedding has changed. If a super grand mansion wedding is what you want then click here to see the ultimate beautiful venue.



I have been to some weddings over the last few years...some huge...some small...some vintage and some traditional. One thing I found I loved most at all of them was all the love in the room and not just from the bride and groom but everyone there celebrating their love. As a kid I was a bridesmaid 5 times and thought weddings were a bore I just figured adults got drunk and danced stupid....erm yeah that happens but nobody tells you about that warm fuzzy feeling and the tears when you see your friends fall in love! I always thought you had to invite all those second cousins and long lost aunts to your special day. I get that some people do and they love it but for me I would rather surround myself with people I love and want to share my special moment with. I adore small intimate weddings they just feel so much more special but a wedding can be beautiful with anything from 2 to 2000 people as long as you relax and enjoy it.

Church weddings are really pretty but are quickly becoming a thing of the past but they will always have their place. The rise of quirky venues and individual creative place is pretty awesome to me a wedding day is about celebrating the things you share so if you love castles then rock a castle wedding or if you love a bar get married there! I love tacky places and would love to get married in Vegas or maybe at home at a cinema but guaranteed it will be tacky and fun with lots of dancing and cocktails? yes please!



Wedding dresses are stunning and I can understand how people want to feel like princesses on their big day and just have all eyes on them. I used to want a huge dress probably not white as my inner goth just wouldn't allow it but the thought of spending a ton of money on a dress I will wear for one day just blows my mind. I love seeing ladies in creative outfits for their big day and even the guys are rocking cool outfits now too. I say if you love cosplay get married in your fav outfit or if you hate white and want a big pink dress then go for it! Simple, pretty and quirky is what appeals to me most with lots of fun accessories.

What was your wedding day like?


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Four Steps to Overcome Addiction for a Better You

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Nearly every single one of us is addicted to something. Whether that is something traditionally dangerous, like a drug or alcohol addiction, or something less directly harmful such as an addiction to shopping or exercise depends on the person. In some cases, your addition might actually be helpful and healthy. Regular exercise is great, but when that exercise becomes a true addiction, and you start to take steroids and push your body beyond its limits, its time to re-evaluate your lifestyle. To help you overcome these dangerous addictions, try following these steps so that you can finally be a better you.

Go Through a Rehabilitation Program


When you are addicted, your brain creates a response system that acts as a feedback loop for pleasure. This loop is made complicated when narcotics or alcohol is involved because these can change your very physiology. Take opiates, for example. Painkillers can be highly addictive and, as there are many prescription opiates given to patients who have either just come out of surgery or who deal with chronic pain, addiction can be all too common. When it starts to interfere with your life, however, a regular detox can be very difficult. That is why going to a drug rehab centre for a medical detox can be the best first step. You need it out of your system so that you can stop being physically addicted and move past the worse of the cravings. If you don’t, you could run the risk of being one of the 70,000 people who die every year from an opioid overdose.



Join a Local Support Group and Stick with It


There are local support groups for all kinds of addictions, which is why it can be very beneficial to join one. The more specific the group is, the better you can find the support and guidance you need to overcome your addiction and to finally move on with your life. You might even be able to make some important friendships that will help give you the strength to do what needs to be done, like cut out toxic relationships or to talk you down from relapsing.

Pick Up New, Healthy Hobbies to Keep You Active


There is a saying about idle hands, and it holds true when it comes to addiction. Be active and enjoy healthy activities, and you will have less time or opportunity to relapse. Try joining an exercise class, volunteering, or learn something new.



Ensure The People in Your Life Help You Be Your Best

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Improving yourself and your habits is great, but if you do not cut out the toxic relationships that either introduced you to your addiction in the first place or the ones that make you turn to your coping mechanism, it is only a matter of time before you relapse. These are not healthy relationships, and they will only lead to your downfall.

Focus on the good in your life and work on improving yourself every day. At the heart of every addiction is something within you that you must address to finally become addiction-free, and by improving your life, you can finally work on moving past your demons.



4 ways to improve your email newsletter form

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An important tool as a blogger now is to introduce a email newsletter. It is a fantastic way to update your readers on an overview of posts they may have missed, run competitions and just make sure you generate lots of interest to keep driving that traffic to your blog. Making sure people who love your content get a reminder that you're there will keep your blog active. I am super guilty of loving bloggers and then getting snowed down and not checking in to see what they are up to but those emails always make me click to go through and find out. They are also a fantastic tool for monetising or businesses. 

Here is a fantastic article from MY Emma om getting that interest.

One of the most overlooked facets of creating a successful email newsletter campaign is the actual form itself—the one people have to fill out in order to become subscribers.
Companies spare no expense when it comes to the funnel that precedes it and the content that comes after, but the form often gets overlooked.
So, if you’re not seeing as many people signing up as you would like, consider the following four ways you could improve what might be the bottleneck, your form.

1. Create compelling copy based on your newsletter’s offer.

Although it might seem like just about every company these days has an email newsletter, that doesn’t mean they’re all the same.
Does your newsletter offer the exact same value as that of a competitor?
Then, it’s vital that you use copy to explain what makes your newsletter stand out in the form. It should outline exactly what recipients have to look forward to if they decide to provide their email addresses.
Don’t assume your entire audience simply sees the intrinsic value in a newsletter. Instead, be specific. If possible, include what current recipients have said about the value you offer.

While lead magnets can boost subscriptions, don’t forego compelling copy in the form itself. Otherwise, many people may simply provide their address for the magnet and then immediately unsubscribe.

2. The design/UX of your email newsletter form

Is your newsletter form user-friendly?
Just like with the rest of your site, if your form doesn’t follow UX best practices, you may still see some interest, but it won’t be nearly as much as you’d enjoy if your form was more intuitive.
One of the easiest ways to do this is by allowing people to use social login credentials to sign up for your newsletter. Instead of making people remember yet another password, let them click on the social platform of their choice to quickly sign up for your newsletter. It couldn’t be any easier.
If you do need to use multiple fields, consider a platform like Garlic.js, which automatically saves the text for them. That way, if someone makes a mistake and needs to reenter information, they only need to do it for one box, not the entire form – something that is sure to chase away a potential subscriber.
Finally, choose a minimalist template. While compelling text is important, a bunch of graphic bells-and-whistles are not. You don’t want any distractions between the user and a completed form.

3. Where the email newsletter form lives on the site

It’s never been easier to add an email newsletter form to your website. The challenge is knowing where it should go to see the most attention and garner the most signups.
In essence, this form is no different than other CTAs that might be on your website. As such, it’s imperative that you not display it where it wouldn’t make sense. At best, this mistake will simply fail to boost subscriptions. At worst, you’ll turn off potential subscribers to the idea of signing up.

A prime example of this is using pop-up ads. Although there is evidence these ads can work, for most companies, it’s best to avoid them at all costs. Most people aren’t going to sign up for your newsletter simply because an ad shows up the minute they visit your website.

Again, think of traditional CTA. Where do you tend to put them for best results? For the most part, they come after high-quality content, right?

That’s why you should pair your signup forms with content upgrades. Once a prospective subscriber is done reading a well-written, informative post, they’ll be ready for more, especially if all they need to do is provide you their email address (or, better yet, click a social login link) to get it.

4. The data fields in your email newsletter form

How many data fields should you include on your newsletter form?

This is a very common question.

Fortunately, the answer is a simple one: as many as it takes to segment your audience.

For some of you, this may not be an issue. If you’re just starting out with your list, you probably haven’t been able to segment it yet. In that case, give people the opportunity to sign up with a single click through a social login.

On the other hand, if you do have different segments, include enough fields in your form to address them through different newsletters.

Do not overdo it, though.

Many companies use their forms to gather information they don’t actually need to properly serve each segment. They ask about age, marital status, location, and a whole host of other traits that may help improve their marketing but isn’t necessary for providing a newsletter.

Back in 2013, at the MarketingSherpa Lead Gen Summit, a test proved that each additional field decreases conversions by 11%. That likely hasn’t improved much over the years, so keep it simple.

It’s just not worth losing recipients who don’t want to go through this entire process. Ask for what you need and leave it at that.

Prioritize your email newsletter form

If you value the potential of your email newsletter, you need to also value the importance of the form people must complete in order to subscribe.

Until you do, the success of your email newsletter will never reach its potential. You’ll never put it in front of as many people as you otherwise could.

However, while it’s always wise to continuously test for better results, optimizing your form based on the above advice is a one-time investment. After that, you can put your focus back on the newsletter itself, confident that you’re not missing out on a much larger audience.


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Do Men And Women Look At First Dates Differently?

Hey Cats,

We all get those first date jitters and the worry if our date shares pour dating etiquette. Like who should pay and where to go? The truth is there are no real rules when it comes to dating just unwritten things we all do or have come to expect from each other. Ferratum already did did some great first date research for us/


I was actually super surprised how little both men and women preened for their first date. I genuinely would have though like 90% would admit to taking that extra effort. A crazy 14% of women however did say that they spent £100 on new items for a date night...however is it just a great excuse to buy those things you have been eyeing up. I am not sure I have ever bought a dress especially just for a date out but then i do have a bit of a dress addiction so it is more of a "ooo which one should I wear"/ I wonder how many of you have a lucky date outfit? I can still remember what my Mr had on our first date 4 years later so it really is worth making that effort. 

I was surprised in the rise of social media that more people haven't checked their date out because lets be honest the rise of online dating means most likely that's where we met them. If we didn't you can be sure that I am going to have a good look. It can be a great way to find some common topics and get a good look at the embarrassing pictures. Careful not to obsess though.

The main thing that seems to stand out is the dreaded bill... this can be the most awkward part of the date. It doesn't have to be though and you really shouldn't go into a date assuming and penniless because that is just not cool. It is interesting to see that men are still taking the traditional root of offering to pay though. 

What do you think of these dating statistics?



10 Practical Ways To Improve Your Life

Hey Cats,

There may come a time when you look around and arrive at the conclusion that you’re not satisfied with your life. Maybe it’s that you’ve been spending too many hours in the office and haven’t had enough time for yourself. On the other hand, maybe you’re simply bored and need to spice up your life.
Either way, the good news is that there are several practical ways for how you can improve your situation and feel happier overall. Avoid dwelling too much in the past and put your energy into making real changes today that will help you to create a brighter tomorrow.
Increase Your Level of Physical Activity
Exercise has physical, mental and emotional benefits, so it’s worth you making an effort to increase your level of physical activity. Set goals and do your best to try to meet them each week so you can keep developing your abilities. Hit the gym more often, pinpoint a workout buddy or play a new sport to help you achieve this goal. The more you move, the more natural energy you’ll have. Also, your mood will lift, and your clothes will fit better. You’ll likely experience a boost in your confidence and will wonder why you didn’t start working out sooner because of how great you feel in general. Have fun with it and use this opportunity to engage in new physical activities you normally wouldn’t even consider doing.

Focus on Your Relationship
You can also improve your life by focusing more attention on your current relationship and the person you love. For instance, schedule regular date nights, communicate more clearly with your significant other and don’t be afraid to be a little spontaneous in the bedroom too. Take time to check out the whizzinator and see if your partner would be up for being a bit more adventurous with you. Make these types of changes, and eventually, you’ll be connecting on a deeper level and enjoying each other’s company a lot more. Give each other the attention you each deserve and appreciate one another, so you don’t take your relationship for granted.
Change Your Diet
The food you consume has an impact on your mood and overall health, so it’s a wise idea to make good choices. Pull yourself out of a slump by changing your diet for the better and eating more nutritious foods. You can do this by grocery shopping and cooking for yourself at home. You may find you truly enjoy the art of cooking and that it’s a relaxing and engaging activity for you to do more regularly. You can even improve your life by becoming a bit bolder with your food choices and branching out when it comes to making new recipes.
Take Control of Your Calendar
Ultimately, what will help you improve your life is to hold yourself accountable for overseeing your schedule. For example, overbooking yourself and having no time to attend to your self-care activities will leave you feeling exhausted and drained. You have to learn how to say no to obligations when you don’t have time for them and take control of managing your calendar. Fill up your time with more of what you enjoy doing and less of what causes you anxiety and stress. Do the same for work and in your personal life and you’ll notice what an impact this modification has on your health and wellbeing.

Adopt A Pet
An additional way to improve your life that’s practical, and fun is to adopt a pet. A pet is a great companion, will make you smile when you’re feeling down and will help add more structure to your days because you’ll have to care for them. There are a lot of animals out there that need a loving home, and you could be the answer they’ve been waiting for. Get a dog and you can go for walks or hikes in your free time and bring it to the dog park where you can also meet new people. Pets bring so much joy to your life and will truly turn your mood and attitude around and make you realise that your situation isn’t so bad after all.  
Find A New Hobby
If you’re feeling lonely or bored lately, then you may want to think about finding a new hobby to take up your extra time. There are a lot of different options out there for you to explore such as drawing or painting, building your own furniture or picking up photography. It’s not only a practical way to use your talents, but you can also join clubs or groups, so you can expand your social circle. You’ll feel a lot better about yourself and more productive when you stay active and engaged in life instead of sitting on the couch watching television and waiting for opportunities to find you. It’s important to take up hobbies that make you feel good about yourself and challenge you so that you’re forced to step outside your comfort zone.


Travel More
Travelling is an excellent way to get out of your comfort zone and see the world. You may not be enjoying life very much right now because you’re stuck in the same routine day in and day out. Mix it up by planning regular staycations and holidays away where you can get out of town for a few days at a time. This is your opportunity to try new foods, learn about different cultures and take part in exciting activities you normally wouldn’t have the chance to do at home. Be sure to take your camera and start documenting all of the various sights you see when you’re travelling, so you always have access to these memories. Create photo albums or videos in your free time as a side project, and handy way to take note of all you’ve been doing.
Live in the Present Moment
Focusing your attention on the present moment by practicing mindful meditation will help you avoid continuing to dwell in the past. Worrying about what you’ve done wrong previously is only going to hold you back from creating the life you desire going forward. Pay attention to your surroundings, what you’re doing at the time and try not to get too caught up with what’s happened or what’s to come. Work on clearing your head on a regular basis and noticing the freedom that comes with you not obsessing over your mistakes or what could be. Become aware of your thoughts and then let them pass like clouds in the sky so you don’t get too hung up on a single notion.
Spend Less Time on Social Media
Although social media is fun an entertaining, it could be damaging your psyche and overall outlook about yourself. It’s easy to compare what others have to what you don’t and to quickly become concerned that your life isn’t as good as everyone else’s. Try to spend less time on social media and more time dedicated to activities that lift you up such as connecting with loved ones, being out in nature or participating in a hobby. You’ll likely quickly find that you feel happier and more satisfied overall when you’re not engrossed with what the people around you are doing. Set limits to how long you’re going to engage on the platforms each day and then become aware of how much extra free time you have back in your schedule as well.
Be Kind to Yourself
One other practical way to improve your life instantly is to be kind to yourself and treat yourself once in a while. For example, schedule a massage, stay in and take a warm bath or cook a healthy meal at home as various ways for how you can be nicer to yourself and practice self-care. It’s easy to get busy and put yourself last, but this isn’t going to help you stay healthy or feel joyful in the long run. You need to dedicate time to nurturing your mind, body, and soul if you want to better manage your stress and have more energy to tackle your to-do list. Make taking care of you a top priority, and it’s likely that your life will feel less chaotic and demanding overall. You can’t be afraid to say no to people when they ask for your time, as you will end up in situations where you’d rather be attending to your own needs instead.
Conclusion

The reality is that your life isn’t likely to naturally get better without any effort on your part. You have to become an active player in designing the future you desire for yourself. Use these ten practical tips to help you create better days ahead that bring a smile to your face. Give it time, because change doesn’t happen overnight, and this process will require you to adjust your ways and habits a bit. Have fun with it and give yourself credit for at least trying to challenge yourself, and see where it takes you.